Young love..

Hey hoes! 

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Okay, young love. Absolutely painful. Absolutely pointless. Because it's not even real. It's all an illusion.

It's a bitch, you get this idea into your head that you've fallen for someone and you gain very strong feelings for them. But it isn't love. I say it like I know what love is..But I don't. I'm not old enough to understand and I know it.

But I know what young loves like. And I know it's shit. It lasts a couple of months or a year or so if you're lucky.. Then its all over. Then one, if not both of you is left to pay the painful price. It's a feeling no words could ever describe.

If you ask me, 'love' before you hit 18 really isn't worth it. I'd rather just have a close friendship or a loose relationship with someone. Not in like.. a slut way. I mean I'd rather have a male best friend who I can spend time with occasionally and have a laugh with & that be it. Or be in a relationship where it's just like that but with a bit more kissing and cuddling.. you could behave like friends and go out with your other friends. And at the end of the day, there's nothing more awkward than when you're out with some friends and two of them are tongue deep in each others throats.

I don't believe that teenagers should be made to feel like a married couple when they're in a relationship. Spending each waking hour at each others side. Like, some couples I know may as well go for a shit together cause that's the longest they spend apart.. and even then they're probably texting each other.

Well, let's face it. If you're a teenager in a relationship..it's not going to last forever. And when it comes to its painful horrible end, I like to have friends to be able to go to. I know it'd piss me off if some dumb hoe of a friend didn't speak to me for months because she was in a relationship and then all of sudden they were up my arse tryna be my best friend again..I wouldn't be down with that. 

But I was that girl once, and I know what it's like to think you're in love. And I'm really grateful that my friends were dumb ass enough to take me back or I would have been in the absolute shit. So I suggest you try to avoid getting into one of those situations.

So the moral of today's post. Relationships when you're young should be about having fun and getting to know someone and having someone you can trust in yo' life. Not some dirty scumbag or hoe who uses and manipulates you. Or someone you spend every waking moment with. Also, if you've stopped speaking and you just sit in silence all the time..It's time to bail out.

Oh and one last thing about relationships..I believe that you can love who you want no matter how old you are. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Yes, I'm talking about the gay community. 

Class dismissed.