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Body Confidence.

Hey bitches! Me again.

This has been bothering me for a while now. People that 'think' they're fat when they're perfectly slim& an amazing shape. I say 'think' sarcastically because sometimes I'm under the impression that some people are just moaning for the attention. I stress, SOME people.

I'm quite aware that body dysmorphic disorder is a common and very real thing, but I think so people may push it a bit. People with this problem are usually quite quiet, don't have a lot of confidence and keep there problem about the way they look to themselves. 

Okay so..Bitch please! Do you seriously expect me to believe this bullshit about you think that you're some kind of fat pig& you hate the way you look when you're all up in my face with all yo' flesh on show on all yo' facebook& twitter photos? No. I'm not taking that shit.

I'm not gunna sugar coat it. I'm also not saying that this is the circumstance with everyone...But to be blunt; I think these people are just attention seeking. I was just saying it, you were all thinking it. 

Now, correct me if I'm wrong but some people genuinely do feel this way, like me, I do. That's why it annoys me so much when people who know they're thin say they're fat. pulling at their stomachs moaning 'omg look at all this flab' Hunny, that's yo' skin. 

Here's some hints on knowing if someone genuinely thinks they're fat;

1) If they are actually fat, they probably think so.

2) If they have a belly bar, they probably don't think they're fat, I'm just saying, I know I have a big stomach, therefor, I wouldn't pay for something that I could only see 10% of the time, like...when I'm lying down. I don't see the point. 

3)If they're all up in their facebook pictures with their stomach on show, t-shirt pulled up to their bra even though their t-shit isn't even meant to show stomach, they're obviously quite confident in themselves.

Finally, I would like to say, to anyone who may be on the verge of taking offence because we've all worked you out..DON'T. It's a compliment in disguise. I'm telling you you're thin. take it & leave.

Also I'm realllly going to stress that this isn't the case with everyone. But please, if it's the case with you. STOP.

And if you genuinely are self conscious like i was fir a very long time about my weight. You're beautiful.

Class dismissed.

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being yo' self.

Ok,ok. So, I've always been one of those people who have a lot to say for themselves, I have very large opinions and I feel that they deserve to be heard. Weather the timings right or not. There for, as you'd probably guessed, if you're a smart arse, I get in a lot of arguments. But, the thing is, I don't care.

When you've been in as many arguments as I have, you get to this point where you think you know what, fuck this, ima be who ima be & the people who don't like that can step away& move on.
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Being yourself makes it sooooo much easier to realise who your real friends are, who actually like& care about who you are. It also immediately gets rid of the people you don't need in your life. People who can't appreciate who you are. Although this may not seem to be a good thing in the present, it will be in the future. TRUST ME.

How ever, suddenly becoming the person you want to be after being someone youre not for so long may shock those around you. So people might think you're being 'fake' or 'changing' and this could result in fall out between friends. 
On the other hand, if this does happen 1 of 2 things is going to happen either;
 1) Over time they will realize, you're just being who you are and that they need to apreciate that and they will apologize& y'all will skip over the rainbow hand in hand& stuff. 
Or 2) You wont be friends any more because they think you're some sort of phonie balonie bitch who they dont wanna be around anymore. And you know that bitch is goin' in yo' burn book.

But at the end of the day, if you wanna be different, you wanna be gay, or bi, or transgender, or loud, or dye your hair a crazy colour, or go against trends& fashion.. If that's who you are, then that's no one else's business. 
Class dismissed.