Monday, 13 August 2012

being yo' self.


Ok,ok. So, I've always been one of those people who have a lot to say for themselves, I have very large opinions and I feel that they deserve to be heard. Weather the timings right or not. There for, as you'd probably guessed, if you're a smart arse, I get in a lot of arguments. But, the thing is, I don't care.

When you've been in as many arguments as I have, you get to this point where you think you know what, fuck this, ima be who ima be & the people who don't like that can step away& move on.
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Being yourself makes it sooooo much easier to realise who your real friends are, who actually like& care about who you are. It also immediately gets rid of the people you don't need in your life. People who can't appreciate who you are. Although this may not seem to be a good thing in the present, it will be in the future. TRUST ME.

How ever, suddenly becoming the person you want to be after being someone youre not for so long may shock those around you. So people might think you're being 'fake' or 'changing' and this could result in fall out between friends. 
On the other hand, if this does happen 1 of 2 things is going to happen either;
 1) Over time they will realize, you're just being who you are and that they need to apreciate that and they will apologize& y'all will skip over the rainbow hand in hand& stuff. 
Or 2) You wont be friends any more because they think you're some sort of phonie balonie bitch who they dont wanna be around anymore. And you know that bitch is goin' in yo' burn book.

But at the end of the day, if you wanna be different, you wanna be gay, or bi, or transgender, or loud, or dye your hair a crazy colour, or go against trends& fashion.. If that's who you are, then that's no one else's business. 
Class dismissed. 

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